Is he a perv, or just devasted at his loss?

Hi! My boyfriend lives overseas, so we have regular conversations by telephone. Most of the time it's talk, but on one philosophical night of lust, we were talking about how we leave this earth with just one outfit, and not even knickers! I said that I want a pair of thongs on when I die, and he said he would lovingly do it(put the thongs on),and tell the undertaker to leave the room, and he would also film it on his phone!! I thought this to be so romantic, but when I told one of my freinds, she was horrified and said he was a necrophilliac?? How dare she I say, but I need to know whether this is someone grieving or just a perv....