How can I handle this situation maturely...!?

when you were needy she knew it and would ask you to do or get things for her she had the edge on you now that you pulled your self up by your bootstrap and things are looking up she feels affended because you no longer tell her your personal things and get her things ,I would talk to her to a certain extent and tell her how you felt when she did things or made you feel inferior, You are talking like you have low self esteem she is no better than you , you may have been depressed but you say she has many more qualities than you ,Dont think that way because you have a diffrent set of qualities that she probably does,nt